March 8th every year is International Women’s Day, where the focus ranges from generalities of respect, love and appreciation to social, economical and political advancement of women. What does this mean for YOU?
Gentlemen, today is another day like Valentine’s Day or Mother’s Day where you can make a special effort to show the women in your life how grateful you are for them. As well, in the workplace, you can honor the special skill set that women bring. Consider these points:
• Women are more intuitive and bring in all points of view, which allows for more collaboration and ultimately, win/win situations: an essential skill in today’s complex working environment.
• Values are more empathic from a woman’s perspective, especially when conflicts between work and life appear, women tend to be more supportive.
• Fostering a stronger support system, women tend to be solid networkers who help each other out, assist and support more than men do.
One of the most prevalent weaknesses of women in the workplace is their lack of confidence in their ability. Gentlemen, here lies your opportunity to leverage the woman power in your life and your workplace. Compliment them with genuine examples of how their intuition, values or support makes your world a better place. Be specific with your examples, and celebrate with them. By doing this, you will be tapping in your own feminine energy, which is an important balance to your masculine self.
Ladies, today is the day to reflect on the special women in your life who have helped you get to where you are today. Reach out and verbally share your gratitude. In prayer, in words, in a hand written note, a card, an email, text, blog post, facebook post, twitter feed … Honor the amazing acts of feminine heroism that has been the wind beneath your wings, and also, honor yourself.
I will never forget the words of my baby nurse, Anne Smith when I delivered my first child. “Isn’t it amazing how giving birth changes who we are as women?” From that moment onward, day after day, my feelings of being a woman have grown stronger.
To my Mom, grandmothers, aunts, cousins, friends, sister-in-laws, nieces, daughters, colleagues, coaches, energy healers, mid-wife, nurses and audience … thank you. I wouldn’t even be one tenth of who I am today without your love, lessons and support.
Happy Women’s Day!!
a) Our Canadian theme for IWD, 2013 is Working Together: Engaging Men to End Violence against Women
b) My charity of choice is the Nipissing Transition House. Donations are appreciated. Read more about how you can help.
c) More research and video from http://www.businessinsider.com/the-rise-of-women-in-the-workplace-is-changing-everything-2012-2